As a wearer of many hats (fedora, bowler, baseball, newspaper boy, floppy), I've found that life is sweeter when you don't box yourself into anyone's definition of "who you are". My Grandma Lisa told me that she made a point to learn something new every day (she's 99), and from what I can tell, it's made her a happier, more compassionate and all-around wonderful human being. I hope my life will reflect the same at 99!!